This post isn’t a fair share of breakup stories. This post is about you, me, and many other women who fail to take the first date anywhere romanticall...
This post isn’t a fair share of breakup stories. This post is about you, me, and many other women who fail to take the first date anywhere romantically.
If you have been always struggling with dating, if you have been always hearing the “I am not ready for commitment” scenario, if you have been always dumped; ask yourself-right now- at this very moment: IS IT YOU OR HIM?
I have always assumed that I always get trapped in the wrong relationships, and that I have always chosen the wrong guys. I have always believed that it’s him, not me… Till one day-upon sharing my sad stories with my friend- she made it clear for me: “There is something wrong in your character that attracts the wrong guys!” She stopped and I couldn’t relate to this sentence until two years later.
She was right! She nailed it up.
Dating is a delicate process that requires a 100% personality approach; which means you are the only one responsible for taking a first date into a second, and a relationship into a next level.
It is not who you are, it is what you do. You might be the most beautiful, smart, funny woman, yet you present yourself as a desperate, needy, or insecure woman which eventually makes any man lose interest in you. For you to be a desirable woman, you have to have the traits of a high value woman. You have to be the woman with certainty, confidence, and integrity. You have to have your own life before you get the man you want.
What if it is not five bad guys but one girl who attracted five bad guys? Keep reading this till you get it. There is a quote that says: “You attract what you are, not what you want. If you want to be great, then be great!” So to attract the right man for you, you have to embody the traits you want in a man. If you want a successful man, you have to be successful on your own. If you want an ambitious, adventurous, confident man, you have to be so. Got it?
So now on, you have to know that it is not him, it is not a bunch of men, it is not you ex either… IT’S YOU!
You can’t count on luck in dating. Luck doesn’t give you the man you want, hard work does. Dating the right guy requires you to communicate a strong sense of what you are rather than who you are because the outcome of dating depends on you and how you handle and present yourself. So now you know that the winning strategy in relationships is using the 100% personality approach. Once you master this strategy, you will be able to take the first date into a romantic, strong, happy relationship!