Relationships Are an Exchange of Beauty and Money

Relationships Are an Exchange of Beauty and Money

My question is: Do a pair of eyelashes and an upper lip filler get you the man you want? No! We’ve been familiar with this scene in Lebanon. A r...

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My question is: Do a pair of eyelashes and an upper lip filler get you the man you want?

No!

We’ve been familiar with this scene in Lebanon. A rich man – a hella bomb beautiful sexy woman. Lebanese women have lost their essence of natural beauty and are trading on their looks to get the man they want! Or better to get a rich man. I can’t tell whether this strategy is an effective one or not and am not familiar with success stories regarding this. But what I know for sure is that women of 2016 value a man with respect to his financial status … A Lebanese woman won’t hesitate to spend 20 minutes in solar beds, 60 minutes doing her makeup, 30 minutes getting her hair done, and 20 minutes fixing her nails, to eventually go for dinner with her sugar daddy.

And the picture goes both ways, the Lebanese man of today makes an effort to look rich or to fit in a luxurious lifestyle in order to attract a beautiful woman.

Fair enough! Relationships today are an exchange of beauty and money. But what is the outcome of such relationships? A man will get a beautiful woman for a one night stand in room 503. But what about woman? Basically, she is trying to manipulate him with her sexuality and looks in the hope of changing him and turning their relationship into a serious long term one. This won’t happen. Sad but true! Men aren’t stupid, they know what they want. A sexy blonde woman is for leisure and pleasure. Full stop.

So, straight talk on the matter, and away from leisure and pleasure, I will tell you what men look for in a long term partner. Allan and Barbara Pease stated it clearly in their book “Why Men Don’t Listen and Women Can’t Read Maps”. They say that men look for:

1.    Personality
2.    Good looks
3.    Brains
4.    Humor
5.    Fit body

Call me old fashioned, but I do still believe in compatibility and companionship. I still want a man who has future vision of having a happy family. I never want a man who is obsessed about my upper lip filler rather than my communication skills. Am not giving a new standard here, it is just my take on the matter. Believe me ladies; I see an amazing personality and an outstanding character behind fake eyelashes and the upper lip filler. Let us try to make a real effort not to indulge in the rich man – beautiful women scene. I bet you, you’ll find the perfect match!

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