Straight talk: Men don’t like to talk about emotional stuff at midnight. You have to know this by now. Imagine you and your man in bed trying to...
Straight talk: Men don’t like to talk about emotional stuff at midnight. You have to know this by now.
Imagine you and your man in bed trying to sleep when all of a sudden you get emotional and something pops up in your mind and you feel like talking about it.
“Baby can we talk?” Optimistically, you will be waiting a YES. But unfortunately, all you get is a confusing reply with a very intimidating facial expression: “Do you think it is the right time! It is almost midnight. What about discussing it tomorrow? I promise.” Or you will hear this: “Why do you always have to talk about things when it is the right time for you only? What about me?” Or worse, he might say: “Why can’t I have a little time for myself at night? I want peace before I sleep!”
Sometimes you might be lucky, for your man finally gives you the green light to talk. But wait, there is a higher chance that he might be very unresponsive, or worse he would fall asleep.
All of us can relate to this scenario. Again; Men don’t like to talk about emotional stuff at night. They find it very irritating and bothering.
Here is why:
1. At the end of the day, your man is tired and feeling fatigued, which means whatever discussion he gets into, he will be less in control and his mind isn’t sharp as much as he would like to.
2. As simple as it is, men are afraid that you will start talking and never stop, and eventually he won’t get enough sleep. He starts thinking of how much he will be exhausted the next day and of his poor performance at work as well because he was up all night listening to your midnight thoughts.
So ladies, next time you want to go through an emotional discussion with your man, be smart and choose the right time. Watch out, it is never at midnight when he wants to get some rest. Along with this, just in case you want to get into a late night discussion, make sure to provide him with an agenda and a time interval for your conversation.