The “WHY” Factor

The “WHY” Factor

Why did he stop texting me? Why did he lose interest? Why did he hurt me? Why didn’t he call? Why is he always busy? Why did he change? Why did ...

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Why did he stop texting me?

Why did he lose interest?

Why did he hurt me?

Why didn’t he call?

Why is he always busy?

Why did he change?

Why did he cheat on me?

Why did he disappear?

And so on…

So you are asking so many whys?

Congratulations! Your relationship road turned downward.

So you are asking so many whys?

Alright! But I’m not here to tell you why! I’m not here to give you an answer!

I’m here to ask you another “why.”

Why are you constantly trying to find an answer for his actions?

Because he is your boyfriend?

NO. He is not. Now relax.

If he truly exists in your life, if he is your boyfriend for real, he wouldn’t leave a space for all these questions.

I will tell you something: it takes two to dance the relationship tango. And with all these questions, I guess you have been dancing alone.

What makes you assume that both of you are in a relationship if you are living in the valley of pain, emptiness, confusion, and frustration?

Relationships are all about stability, consistency, caring, and happiness.

Remember that. Please.

I will tell you one more thing; In relationships, the “why” factor is an alarming sign. It is a wakeup call to tell you that this relationship doesn’t exist anymore. If your boyfriend doesn’t want to present a secure attachment style and doesn’t want to make clarity on where you stand in his life, abandon him.

Abandon him and get on with your life.

I bet you, you will be happy. Very happy!

And always remember the golden rule: It takes two to dance the relationship tango.

P.S: Never dance alone.

Cheers!

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